As kids, everyday tasks may not feel like a responsibility to us. Such as laundry, cleaning our room or washing the dishes. But as we grow, the weight of the world suddenly falls on our hands. Not knowing where mom kept the dish soap, not understanding the budget for grocery shopping, not knowing how the washing machine functions, and more importantly, not knowing where to start. 

While household chores may seem ‘tough’, especially when children are asked to do it, we fail to acknowledge the true impact that doing everyday tasks might have on children, as they grow up. 

Why start practicing at a young age? 

Doing simple household chores, such as making your own bed or folding your own clothes, can lead to a great impact. Once children master such skills from a young age, it allows them to develop a greater understanding regarding how they can take care of themselves or how they can help around the house when asked to. They learn skills which will play a big role in their adult lives. 

Moreover, doing household chores offer a new perspective to children towards the hard work and dedication that their parents make to keep the house running. As kids help with tasks, such as folding laundry or washing the dishes, it broadens their understanding towards maintaining a household, and allows them to gain a greater vision by putting themselves in their parents’ shoes. 

Furthermore, when kids complete chores consistently and with effort, acknowledging their hard work will lead to a boost in their self confidence, thus allowing them to feel confident when taking on a task. 

Where to Start?

The beginning stages of involving children in household chores can be a tricky start. However, if you are patient and kind, children will be able to grasp the habit in a short period of time. Here is how you can start:

Choose a chore that is appropriate for children’s age and abilities

It is best to give them a chore that is not too hard, yet not too easy. You can start by providing simple jobs, such as picking up their toys after playing.

Involve children in chores that cares for family

Chores involved in caring for family, as a whole, allows children to understand how they can take care of their loved ones. Start by having them set or clear the table. Such tasks allow children to gain a sense of responsibility and participation.

Acknowledge their work

Complimenting children once they have finished their task provides them with a sense of motivation. Praise their effort and celebrate their accomplishments.

Turn chores into a learning experience

When children make mistakes, have them learn from the experience. Be gentle and kind with them, as it is their first time trying something new. 

Everyday chores may seem like small responsibilities, but their impact on a child’s growth is far from ordinary. Every time a child helps, learns, or takes responsibility, they’re building the mindset to face life with strength and purpose.